🧠“I Want to Go Home”: Understanding Dementia and the Desire to Leave
Have you ever heard a loved one say, “I want to go home”—even when they’re already there?
This phrase often surfaces in the mid to late stages of dementia, signaling deeper emotions or unmet needs. Some individuals may even begin packing a suitcase, preparing for a departure that feels real to them.
❗ Why “You’re Home” May Not Be the Best Reply
Although it’s natural to correct them, reality checks can increase confusion or distress. A more empathetic approach helps the person feel understood and secure.
✔️ Try This Instead:
- Use their first name
- Avoid arguing—stay calm and agreeable
- Ask gently:
- “Mary, do you need to do something there, or do you just want to be there?”
Wait for their response. When a person with Dementia says “I want to go home”, by validating their feelings, you create space for emotional comfort and build trust.
🤗 What a Person with Dementia Needs Most
- Safety and love
- A sense of being heard
- Gentle validation rather than correction
Your role as a caregiver is not to anchor them to reality—but to guide them with understanding and compassion.
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